Please note that I have edited her reply to make it a little bit more suitable for “adolescent” readers.
“Beautifully said Lolo; but I don't think it's unlucky!!! I think it's more of our character, that we are the type of women who attract such heartbreaking “men”. We show we are strong, independent and reliable, and they love what we give them; but they in turn take care of the LESS FORTUNATE women( the clever ones), who show they need protection and that they can't live without a man's protection, and they are the ones who end up catching the men!
On the other hand we are disposable ( get what ever she can give you then throw her away) Life is a 1+1=2 rule., if you give them a finger they want the whole hand!!!
I have some bad news for you ladies; unless you play dumb, helpless and totally lost without them, you'll end up being used, abused and tossed away for the other weak, helpless woman.
We stand beside them, support, encourage and give heart and soul, and all you get in return is a friend's role, he wants to practice his manhood with a weak, feminine woman who makes him feel strong, capable and in the driver's seat.
Well now I have some good news for you; there are out there strong, confident men who are totally secure and sure of their manhood, who really appreciate a strong independent woman, who can give a hand!!! There are our versions of male type, who are stable, and steady and who could actually become the wind beneath your wings and help you soar.
Look around you'll find them, stop looking for men to support, look for strong
men who compliment your wonderful strong personalities, and become one unbeatable match made in heaven.
We are absolutely OK, our only mistake is the choices we make in men.
We deserve to love and be loved back and appreciated... for what we are.....let the other women get the insecure men.....we deserve better anyway....”
Makes me feel a little better, and hopeful again! What about you?
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